Your baby continues to grow and develop inside of you. Measuring 17
inches long, she weighs 5lbs. And from this week, until 2 weeks before
birth, she will gain about a half pound of weight every week.
The bones in her skull are formed, but aren't fused. They actually
don't fuse entirely until early adulthood, allowing room for her brain
to grow through childhood. Because they aren't fused, the bones in her
skull will be able to overlap, helping her to fit through the birth
canal during delivery.
Mom
You are probably gaining about
a pound a week and everything might feel swollen, but you're almost
there! You've almost made it! Just a few more weeks and you will be
rocking your little one to sleep. Though it's common to feel swollen at
this point in your pregnancy, remember to contact your health care
provider if you experience sudden swelling, as this may be a sign of
labor.
Perineum Massage - In the
late 90's, a research study showed that first time mothers who did
perineum massage were less likely to have perineum tears than first
time mothers who did not.
Mother's who want to try to avoid episiotomy by practicing perineum
massage usually start massaging around 33 weeks. Perineum massage can
be performed by you or a partner you are comfortable with. The steps
are outlined below if you would like to try this technique.
Preparation - Wash your hands before you begin, and
make sure your nails are short. You may also want to grab a mirror if
this is your first attempt. If you or your partner's skin is
particularly rough you may want to use a pair of disposable rubber
gloves. Find a comfortable position; some women lie down, others stand,
some sit and others elevate one leg.
Massage – Lubricate your fingers with oil or
water-soluble jelly, avoid using mineral oil or petroleum jelly. Use
enough jelly to allow your fingers to move smoothly over the tissue and
lower vaginal wall.
Note: It might be easiest for you to use your thumb. Your partner may find it easiest to use their index finger.
Your goal is to stretch tissue around the vagina, the muscles around
the vagina and the perineum. To achieve this, you'll insert fingers
inside the vagina up to the second knuckle and move them upward along
the sides of the vagina in a rhythmic U movement. You want your
perineum to sting from stretching. While you apply pressure, practice
relaxing your muscles. At first you will feel tight, but with regular
practice, the tissue will begin to relax and stretch.
Try massages 5-10 minutes daily from now until the big day!